Angry Child Outbursts: 10 Essential Rules for Dealing with an Angry Child

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Dealing with an angry child is never easy. No matter how cool and calm your demeanor is, something snaps inside when a child shows anger and throws tantrums. Worse still, many parents don’t even know how to handle angry outbursts from their little ones – some freeze up, while some try to school the kids in their own unique ways. Well, anger is quite normal among kids and at times they will show it as well and parents needn’t feel excessively bothered about that. But yes, it’s always better to have some knowledge about the ways to manage angry child outbursts of your kids and their occasional grumpiness. This will help you deal with anger situation better and plus, you can teach some good lessons to the child as well. 

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angry child outbursts

 Here are some essential rules for dealing with an angry child –  

Try to stay calm during anger outbursts of your child 

Some parents yell back or challenge their kids for their anger outburst. This, however, will further incense them and make their anger worse. Rather, you need to stay calm in those times. The last thing you should be doing is to challenge the kid when he/she is angry. You just can’t add fuel to fire. But when you’re cool, the child’s tempers may cool down after a while and situation will get back to normal.    

 Avoid reasoning with your child when he’s angry 

Look, children are not adults and you should not expect them to get the point from your reasoning. They lack the capacity to see through situations, so often fly off the handle more frequently than adults would do. Which is why to question them or reasoning with them in the middle of the anger outburst or tantrum is never a good strategy. It will backfire definitely. Rather, you should wait for the temper to come down and then can talk to the child and make them understand the finer points easily.   

  Be in control of your reactions 

Children learn by example. To them, parents are the biggest teacher in life. Keeping this in mind, you should always try to be in total control of your reactions when the child is angry. You have to stay strong both physically and mentally during those tantrums and outbursts to not send negative signals to your little one. If you are calm in those nervy moments, this will help the child understand the merit of your actions and hopefully try to imbibe the habits sooner rather than later.  

Don’t ever get physical with your child 

Never ever a parent should get physical with their child for the sake of controlling their anger outbursts. If you did, this would start an endless loop of fights dragging on, who knows, for a lifetime. This is never a good way to teach the child the right lesson as its repercussions could be deep and long-lasting. No matter how much mistake your child makes, the best strategy is always to talk through the situation.    

Be extra careful with younger kids 

You need a totally different approach to deal with younger kids for their anger outbursts. Kids between the age of 1 to 4 are so innocent that you can’t expect them to be obedient or pay heed to good things you teach them. The best strategy with them is to leave them alone or let them go on with their anger and wait for the temper to cool down. You should not challenge them or talk tough to them else it could make then angrier in the process.

Don’t ever give in to your child’s way 

Some parents easily give in to their child in the face of angry outburst or tantrums which is a bad strategy. Being indecisive for those moments means your child will take it a tool to seek your submission in the future as well. It’s fine to let the child have their way with their tantrums but as a parent, your duty is to take the child to the corner and make them understand the good and bad sides of their anger.  

Give concession to anger but not for your child’s bad behavior  

Anger is fine sometimes. It’s an emotion that can grip even the sages. So, when your child is angry or shows outbursts, ignore it and let the situation pare down. However, if the child resorts to yelling, abusing during the tantrum period, make it a point to school them. Bad behavior from your child must never be ignored else it could dilute all your parenting efforts in the future. Talk to the child and tell them how bad behavior could ruin their personality forever. 

Be sane with punishments 

Harsh punishments may not necessarily work to cool down the anger outbursts in your child. Surprisingly, it may worsen the situation and escalate the anger further. Even if your child screams, shouts and yells at you, this does not mean you would give them harsh punishment. This can make then angrier so it’s always better to choose a different approach in such cases. The best route is always to wait for the anger to subside and then talk to the child.  

Yank out of the anger scene    

Sometimes not reacting to a situation is the best remedy. You can apply this to the angry outbursts of your child and get good results. When you leave the child to do what they deem fit, it actually makes them mend their ways sooner than you expect. Since you walk out of the scene, the child is less likely to get any motivation to continue on with their anger. 

 Play the waiting game

If your child is prone to anger outbursts more often than it should, you should then consult a child therapist. Otherwise, for once in a while cases, it’s always better to play the waiting game, stay calm and hopes the child to calm down soon. This strategy is quite effective, and you can always find the situation in control. 

So, here are 10 essential ways to deal with angry child outbursts. If you know of any other way, then do let us know in the comment section.

 

Praveen Singh
Praveen Singh is a writer and blogger, and a professional interested in sharing interesting ideas with the world. His blogs give a peek into things that aim to inform, enrich and entertain the readers. He loves sharing views on anything that provides value to the readers and helps broaden their horizon.

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